Learning how to talk to women isn’t easy for a lot of men. Just getting the nerve to approach a beautiful woman is hard enough. But even when you do that, just getting past the beginning of a conversation can seem like an insurmountable obstacle.
So what should you do if you want to take a conversation with any girl or women? How do you talk to women in a way that gets you past boring introductions and on to a conversation that actually creates attraction, leads to a date, orescalates the interaction sexually?
The first trick is to not put too much pressure on yourself to say the “right thing”. In other words, don’t psyche yourself out before you even begin.
The next trick is to use basic conversation and communication skills to get her to talk and to show a sincere interest in what she has to say. The more she talks, the less you have to. So how do you do that? What do you say to women when you want to keep the conversation moving and keep her interested in you?
Start by listening intently to what she says and then consider the five W’s and one H: Who, What, When, Where, Why, and How. Ask interesting questions that get her to open up and start talking about herself. The key point being “interesting”. Asking her mundane questions about the weather, her job, etc. won’t create attraction. She’s not here for a job interview.
This is your opportunity to get to know what really makes her tick while also standing out from every other man she comes in contact with. When done correctly, one question leads to another and then another and before you know it a full-fledged conversation develops.
The most beautiful women are often the most difficult for men to get because they get bored really fast. That’s the bad news. The good news is, when you create fun, effortless conversation with a beautiful woman, not only does she stay interested, but she also becomes POWERFULLY attracted to you. Why? Because you’re so much different than all the other awkward, boring, and intimidated chumps they’re used to.
So let’s talk about the logistics of what to say to women.
The best types of questions are those that encourage a woman to talk so you can quickly and easily lead into additional questions. In other words, when talking to women, try to avoid questions that can be answered with a simple yes or a no or a few short words. The more involved her answer is, the easier it will be to carry on a conversation without awkward silences.
If you don’t feel comfortable asking the types of questions above with a woman you just met, you can ease into the conversation by offering up a quick compliment followed by a question.
The key is to show a sincere interest in her answers. A conversation will develop naturally after that. Whatever question you choose, ask because you sincerely want to know her answer. Don’t ask just to keep the conversation going.